Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Meeting Hot Sexy Singles Live On the Web


Webcam personals are getting more and more popular ever. Adult webcam personals are perhaps the hottest buzz on the internet personals scene right nowadays.

Adult webcam personals let you live out your hottest erotic fantasies right from the privacy or your own home. Talk about convenience!

Also referred to as adult video dating, the origins can be traced to the adult sex industry. This industry had begun using live web camera (or webcam) technology, long before the rest of the internet industries finally caught on.

How does it work?

Well, it make use of technology that allows you to see other people who may be your next door neighbor or a sexy girl from Japan who just wants to flash her heavenly given humps, on your computer screen in real-time. The visual stimulation and body language gives this type of experience an almost real-life feel.

What sets webcam personals apart from other forms of internet dating, apart from adding life to it, is that the most of the internet personals nitty-gritty is eliminated. In most cases, writing personal ads and profiles is not even needed. So what it means, It’s your attractiveness is what going to sell you.

Owning a webcam is not really necessary to have fun with adult webcam personals. You can still chat and watch singles and models on your computer screen without one.
But for those who prefer increased interactivity, having a webcam is recommended. Compared to regular video cameras, webcams are relatively inexpensive to buy and can be purchased at most computer or electronics stores, online or offline.

The ability to live your visual fantasies and fetishes to an almost real-life experience is what makes adult webcam personals popular (oh yeah, uhuh-uhuh, here we go). You see, adult webcams services provide access to either singles seeking erotic fun, or models who will do just about anything before the camera.

Whether you like lap-dances, swingers, striptease, lingerie, leather, toys etc., you can get it on adult video personals. Okay, you can't touch (or be touched), but the erotic visual stimulation is as close to real life as it can get.

Be Aware!

What you should not compromise on, however, is the webcam site. This is the website that makes possible the dating and chatting sessions and makes them accessible through the internet. You should always sign up with a reputable site. Why?

A reputable webcam dating site will have a good database of active members and/or models. Without enough number of members you obviously will neither variety of activities nor quality. But numbers are not the only consideration.

Some sites have been known to secretly install malicious software on your computer. The software can be harmful to your computer as well as do things like tracking your activities to starting your webcam without your knowledge. This could lead to all kinds of nasty experiences.

Adult webcam personals are much safer (and private) than bars and clubs, as no one can physically harm you through the computer screen.

Now you have been informed, so what are you waiting for? Let’s get the good times rollin’ and start flashin’!

Monday, October 22, 2007

Tips on How To Seduce A Women

It is estimated that thirty percent of Female singles have used online dating sites. I don't know how many people that is, nor if that statistic is true throughout the internet community. What's certain is that right now there are millions of love-hungry people online. There will be millions tomorrow too, and this time next year there may be even more.

That's a lot of people! And Beautiful women too!

Whilst everyone is different, it's fair to say they all want the same thing in the end: they want to feel loved.

For a woman especially, this means feeling safe. It means feeling attractive and desirable. Above all, it means feeling.

Women, by and large, do not work on the same visual plane like men. Of course, they care about your appearance - so should you! But they're much more "wired" to feeling. (After all, nature has blessed or cursed women with the ability to have babies, and her instinct is to find a good father. Men are programmed to procreate as often as possible and thus look for a healthy mother. It's in the genes!)

When you first approach a woman - even online - you should have this in mind. If you want to seduce her, you've got to be asking yourself how you are making her feel. She almost certainly won't want to hear about your interest in football or baseball, and she certainly won't want any of your vital statistics, much as you might be keen to learn hers!

To seduce a woman online, try teasing her a little - not to make her squirm, but to make her smile. When telling her about yourself, tell her something about how you feel about things - (not your football team!) - but things like relationships. If you're seriously hoping to seduce her, I hope you know not to go into how the last relationship ended because she was a b***ch! No, no and no again. If you do that, she'll be asking herself if you're thinking of her that way. Never compare her with an ex. Ever. Period! Got that?

Whenever I've successfully seduced a woman online, I've told her (honestly) that I live from the heart. I follow my passions and I do things because I love them. (So think about what you love before you start writing. If it's football, that's okay, just don't tell her all the latest scores. Tell her how much you make time for things you love... You can always point out that football is a poor substitute for the company of a lovely woman!)

To seduce her, put her at the center of your thoughts. Tell her how her picture, (if she has one) took your breath away. And for heaven's sake find something in her profile that you can talk about. She will have exuded blood over compiling it, so give her some credit and make her sound interesting to you. (If she's one of those who's left all her profile blank, why are you writing to her anyway? There are hundreds more out there near you, unless your home is in the middle of nowhere) If you truly want to seduce a woman online, follow these simple principles and they'll beat a path to your (bedroom) door.

An Affair to Remember in The Land of the Rising Sun

My wife is about 10 years older than me, a beautiful woman I love dearly. But we have a not totally uncommon problem: her low drive for physical intimacy. She has always been low energy, becomes cold quickly, and it would be best to call her 'frigid'. When we make love, it's good--but it's rare. This did surprise me a little since I was always led to believe that Japanese women were extremely passionate in bed. Naturally, especially since I am her opposite in this regard, tension developed. Her solution? "Why don't you just find a younger women?" Since this was initially suggested during a nasty argument, I didn't take her seriously. And honestly, I didn't want to do so. But then, in the course of several calm conversations, she reiterated this idea. After all, she had had two brief affair with older married men when in her 20's. Of course, that was in Japan. I am told that adultery is fairly common in Japan and since personal relationships there are what they should be - private business. No wonder, it is perfectly acceptable to go to bed with whomsoever you like and no one will make a big deal about it, as they do here in the US. I had heard that young women in Japanese companies go to bed with their senior male colleagues either because they just work too hard and have no time to find a boyfriend or it helps them move up the ladder. Many of these men are very lonely anyway.

Last year we were going to Tokyo for a while, and I posted some ads in international sections of personals' pages. I responded to many also, but only got a few responses, mostly "I'm not looking for a casual relationship; I want a boyfriend." But right before we left, I got a positive response. Truth was, she wasn't what I was hoping for. I had hoped to find one of these "desparate housewives" I have heard about and read about. Harumi was a 26 year old college student, and what a life she turned out to be leading! She had had casual relationships with three men, all foreigners (a German, a Canadian, and an American). Just sowing her wild oats, and interested in foreign men, and wanting to practice her English while both pleasuring each other.

We met and sized each other up at a "kissaten", as coffee shops are called in Japan and a first date typically happens there. She was very pretty, but with a typical Japanese figure. She had a long shiny black hair and dressed in a see-through white shirt and you could see her red bra with a scarf around her neck. I kept imagining what it would be like to be with her. We talked and I couldn't tell if she was interested in me or not, so I just went with the flow. But, she agreed to meet again for an afternoon delight.

When we met next time at Hachioji in Shibuya, it was hard for me to believe that it was real. For a moment, I was even surprised that it was Harumi - she looked even more captivating. She had a skin tight purple silk top and a black mini-skirt slit on the slide that barely covered her legs and ample rear. She led me to a street filled with love hotels, and in we checked-in. In no time, she had let her skirt fall to the floor and I helped her out of her tight top. Her embroidered mesh bra and garter set showed me how much Japanese women pays attention with their lingeries. From then on there was simply no time to wait. And thus was one of the most exhausting afternoons I have ever known spent. I got home that evening completely exhausted, fulfilled, and satisfied. Ah c'est la vie!