It is estimated that thirty percent of Female singles have used online dating sites. I don't know how many people that is, nor if that statistic is true throughout the internet community. What's certain is that right now there are millions of love-hungry people online. There will be millions tomorrow too, and this time next year there may be even more.
That's a lot of people! And Beautiful women too!
Whilst everyone is different, it's fair to say they all want the same thing in the end: they want to feel loved.
For a woman especially, this means feeling safe. It means feeling attractive and desirable. Above all, it means feeling.
Women, by and large, do not work on the same visual plane like men. Of course, they care about your appearance - so should you! But they're much more "wired" to feeling. (After all, nature has blessed or cursed women with the ability to have babies, and her instinct is to find a good father. Men are programmed to procreate as often as possible and thus look for a healthy mother. It's in the genes!)
When you first approach a woman - even online - you should have this in mind. If you want to seduce her, you've got to be asking yourself how you are making her feel. She almost certainly won't want to hear about your interest in football or baseball, and she certainly won't want any of your vital statistics, much as you might be keen to learn hers!
To seduce a woman online, try teasing her a little - not to make her squirm, but to make her smile. When telling her about yourself, tell her something about how you feel about things - (not your football team!) - but things like relationships. If you're seriously hoping to seduce her, I hope you know not to go into how the last relationship ended because she was a b***ch! No, no and no again. If you do that, she'll be asking herself if you're thinking of her that way. Never compare her with an ex. Ever. Period! Got that?
Whenever I've successfully seduced a woman online, I've told her (honestly) that I live from the heart. I follow my passions and I do things because I love them. (So think about what you love before you start writing. If it's football, that's okay, just don't tell her all the latest scores. Tell her how much you make time for things you love... You can always point out that football is a poor substitute for the company of a lovely woman!)
To seduce her, put her at the center of your thoughts. Tell her how her picture, (if she has one) took your breath away. And for heaven's sake find something in her profile that you can talk about. She will have exuded blood over compiling it, so give her some credit and make her sound interesting to you. (If she's one of those who's left all her profile blank, why are you writing to her anyway? There are hundreds more out there near you, unless your home is in
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