Should I make a sex tape?

CAM you believe it? Eva Longoria in a sex tape!

The Desperate Housewives star fears saucy footage of her and hubby Tony Parker has hit the Net after thieves stole a tape from her home.

And she’s not the only hot star to see her film fumbles go public.

From Paris Hilton to Pamela Anderson, the A-list can’t help capturing their naughty romps on camera.

So why do they find taping their tawdry moments so appealing? “Voyeurism can be a real turn-on,” reckons Sun online sexpert Sarah Hedley.

“There’s a voyeur in all of us and when we’re the star of the show, it’s even more thrilling.”

Sarah also sees home movies as an alternative to porn for some women. “Seeing your partner turned on by the perfect women in a porn film can be intimidating.

“So watching footage of the two of you together can seem like a safer, more intimate choice.”

“It’s also a nice little bit of memorabilia for long-term couples – the chance to look back and remember in years to come just how healthy your sex life used to be.”

Healthy’s all well and good, but what about the risk of others seeing your earth-moving memento? Surely sexy vids are more hassle than they’re worth?

“Not if you do the job properly,” reckons Sarah. “If you take the time and precautions to get it right, I see nothing wrong with shooting a sex tape at all.

So if foxy footage sounds like your bag, follow Sarah’s golden rules to playing it safe.

1) TRUST IS A MUST

The first rule is to make sure you trust your partner implicitly.

And by that I mean you trust him enough to marry him or are married to him already.

If you’re just a few months into a relationship and fancy a sexy thrill, this is not for you.

Remember, if a short-term fling sours, you could find your romps on the net if they’re in the hands of a bitter ex.

2) NEVER FILM FOOTAGE ON A MOBILE

I would never ever do anything on a mobile phone as it’s likely to end up on You Tube.

There are so many ways to hack information from mobiles and it’s so easy to forward footage that you’d be mad to attempt nookie in front of your Nokia.

3) ANONYMITY IS BEST

If you’re going to go through with filming your romp, it’s safer and possibly sexier if you can’t be identified.

Agree with your partner that you’ll film with your faces out of shot or why not try wearing a sensual mask or costume to conceal your identity?

Remember to conceal any revealing tattoos you may have too!

4) PLAN THE ACTION

Remember: this is supposed to be a turn-on and you want to look your best.

Spend a few moments before you flick the ‘On’ switch working out the best camera angles and sorting out a flattering light. It’s not supposed to be a horror show!

5) DRAW UP A CONTRACT

There’s a great book by Anna Span called Erotic Home Videos. It’s full of sexy advice and it also features a contract you and your partner can draw up.

You can copy and both sign this contract (with witnesses to sign too if you can cope with the embarrassment) to ensure that neither of you makes the footage public.

Of course, this won’t stop an ex from sharing the film (or a thief from stealing it) but it will mean you can legally sue him if he does so against your wishes!

6) KEEP THE TAPE

The only way to be really sure your man doesn’t show off your celluloid sauce is to keep the only copy.

... AND IF YOU’RE STILL NOT SURE?

With all of the above in place, there’s still the chance a thief will take off with your raunchfest.

If you’re worried your sexy footage will get in the wrong hands, agree to record over it with your partner the moment you’ve watched it.

You can also try taking naughty snaps on your camera or if it’s the voyeuristic aspect that turns you on, perhaps get your man to put on a sexy show for you in real time.

Some memories can last a lifetime ...

By:BELLA BATTLE